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When a family member receives a cancer diagnosis, one of the most challenging conversations a parent may face is how to talk about it with their children. This delicate conversation requires sensitivity, honesty and reassurance. Here are some helpful tips to navigate this difficult discussion.

Be honest, but age-appropriate

Honesty is essential when discussing a cancer diagnosis with children. However, it is important to consider their age and level of understanding. Use clear, simple language that they can comprehend. Avoid using medical jargon or overwhelming them with details. Provide basic cancer information, such as the fact that it is a prevalent illness, without going into complex explanations.

Encourage asking questions and expressing emotions

Children may have many questions and emotions when they learn about a parent's cancer diagnosis. It is advised to encourage them to express their feelings and ask questions. Letting them know that it is normal to feel sad, scared, or confused will reassure them that they are not alone during this difficult time.

Provide reassurance and support

It is helpful to let children know that their parents or family members are receiving the best possible care and that the doctors are doing everything they can to help. This provides reassurance that they will still be taken care of and that routines will remain as normal as possible.

Be prepared for multiple conversations

Talking about cancer with children is not a one-time conversation. It is important to be prepared to have multiple discussions as they process the information and have new questions arise. 

Seek additional support

Coping with a cancer diagnosis can be overwhelming for both parents and children. It is important to seek additional support from counselors, support groups, or other resources specializing in helping families navigate cancer. These resources can provide guidance, support, and strategies for communicating effectively with children about cancer.