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We all express how we feel differently, but how come some people seem to have that "I don't care" attitude all the time? The short answer is that they do care, and they're just living with flat affect - the inability to convey emotions. But the bigger question is, are they able to fall in love?

In the field of psychology, the term "affect" refers to a person's ability to express emotions through facial expressions, hand gestures, or other forms of body language. A person with something called "flat affect" is someone who cannot convey emotions at all, while someone with "blunted affect" is a person who gives a muted response. For example, someone with blunted affect will smirk at a funny joke, while someone with flat affect will not even react at all.

Flat affect is not a condition, but it is a common symptom in people with autism, dementia, schizophrenia and depression, among other disorders. It is also seen in some patients with traumatic brain injury. Fortunately, depending on the advice of a professional, it can be treated with different kinds of therapy, antidepressants and medication.

Love language and flat affect

Because we all have different love languages, the way one person receives and gives love is different from others.

For example, people with gift-giving as a love language tend to plan surprises for their loved ones. And it is human nature for them to delight in the happiness their loved ones show when they receive these gifts and surprises. But it is a different case for people with flat affect, in the sense that they cannot show their emotions. They can appreciate gifts and surprises, but they are just not able to show it.

Experts say people living with flat affect can fall in love and experience other profound emotional connections. However, they require understanding from their partners since they have a different way of communicating their feelings.